Smile, slow down, and stop for a minute. Do you feel like your fuse just got lit and you're gonna explode? Don't. Why is this person pushing your buttons? What in their life led them to this moment? Not everything they have done may be their fault. Now their reaction is their choice, but WAIT, so is yours. Your reaction at this moment is just as important as theirs. You are in control of your reaction and your life, just as they are theirs. What is your choice? The choice that the good Lord would have us make, or as the girls say the "down there" choice? Make a good choice today, and when something stresses you take a breath and while you're drawing it in and letting it out, say a prayer.