What is your comfort? There is something that if you are asked (and you are being honest), what is something you do to comfort yourself, you would have an answer. I shower in the dark. Anytime something was rough in my life (usually one of my cats dying) I do it....now when I'm really tired, I catch myself doing that before I get in bed. Why? who knows. It soothes me, or relaxes me...but either way I am comfortable. Is your relationship with God that way? Do you turn to him for comfort? I think we all need to more often, yes he hears our cries for help, but he always hears our need to be held as well.